Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the craziest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with. Someone who speaks highly of you. Someone you can laugh with. Life is too short not to love someone who makes you feel like nothing else matters in the world but your love. Despair will come. Find someone that you want to be there with you through those times. Most importantly, marry the one that makes passion, love, and madness combine and course through you. A love that will never dilute - even when the waters get deep, and dark.
N’tima